Sex Gets Real 144: Virginity and first time sex with Amber Keyser

Looking for the details on submitting a listener confession? I created a guidelines page for you. As you know, January’s theme this year for confessions is FIRSTS. It felt wonderful to be able to have Amber Keyser, author of The V-Word, join in the fun this week as her book is an anthology of 17 stories all about first time sexual experiences. …

Sex Gets Real 141: Losing your virginity, starting with anal, & empathy

This episode is sponsored by HotelsByDay. Save 5% with code SGR5off. It’s Christmas Day! What better way to celebrate a holiday than with a sexy, fun chat with not one but TWO fellow sex educators. And from New Zealand, no less. Kate McCombs and Louise Bourchier are here to help me answer questions from you about getting started with anal sex …

Sex Gets Real 110: Circumcision, Girl Boners, & orgasms

Masturbation May. Have you gotten yours on yet? If not, pop over to our exclusive sale with podcast-approved toys and treat yourself to something deliciously naughty. A few months ago, August McLaughlin invited me on her show, Girl Boner, to talk about body acceptance and trauma. I’d been following her for over a year and admired her own story in …

Sex Gets Real 106: Is a prostate massage cheating?

From BDSM to broken penises, from virgin stories to rope bondage. It’s a packed week. Dawn has some new client openings for sex and relationship coaching. Want to check it out? Pop over to her coaching page and jump on it ASAP. This week is full of juicy questions. One listener reveals he has a broken penis and after being …

Sex Gets Real 105: A virgin and her vibrator

An intimate chat with Dawn Serra. Just because. Dawn woke up and just wanted to have a little chat with you, because you’re amazing. There’s also a follow-up from a listener who wrote in recently about sex with vibrators. Plus, a 20-year-old virgin just got her first vibrator and wants help on working on internal orgasms. A mom also has …

Sex Gets Real 102: Vibrators and virgins

Dirty Lola in the house Dawn has two announcements: First up, there is a free webinar on March 28th all about intimacy in relationships as you explore non-monogamy and opening an existing relationship up. Register here! Second, Dawn is an expert speaking at the Love Detox online event that starts April 4th. Learn more here: http://www.thelovedetoxseries.com/dawn This week’s co-host is …

Sex Gets Real 98: Should a virgin just do it?

New sex for us and sex for newbies. Dawn attended a BDSM conference for Valentine’s in Canada and tried several new things. Dylan scored a ton of presents. We have a backlog of listener emails, too. One listener wants to give his girlfriend a vibrator but she’s inexperienced and he isn’t sure where to start. Another listener is a virgin …

Sex Gets Real 87: STI stigma and poly feels

Sex. The scariest thing in the world? Dawn really loved this conversation about STI stigma. A recent article in The Atlantic (link below in the show notes) talked about some research findings that show people are terrified of sex. People judge someone more harshly for transmitting a mild case of curable chlamydia than killing someone with swine flu. Why? Because …

Sex Gets Real 60: Ball stretching, monogamy, & pegging

From buying sex services to menstrual cups to drag kings and more, it’s a wild ride here at Sex Gets Real this week. In the DC area? Then join Dawn’s new meetup: Relationship Communication Bootcamp. The first event is June 11th and you can sign-up now! Each month we’ll get together and practice fun, easy techniques for learning how to …