What are you prioritizing in love?

Relationships are not complicated. They take practice. They take prioritization. They take choosing to show up in love, even when it’s awkward.

Sex Gets Real 114: Moving beyond sex positivity

JoEllen Notte is a sex educator powerhouse – she is revolutionizing the discussion about sex and depression, and also has a beautiful blog all about sex positivity, sex toys, and introversion. She recently reached out to me and asked if she could come on the show to talk about sex positivity versus sex performativity. Or, as we discuss in this …

Sex Gets Real 103: In love BEFORE the sex

What do you do if you’re in love before you have sex? Comedian and 4-Play Baltimore host, Prescott Gaylord, joins us for the first of two HIQIs. First, we hear from Sophie about college hook-ups and how she worked all her FWBs on campus. Then, Katie writes in because she is about to have sex with her girlfriend of one …

Sex Gets Real 101: Grossed out by BJs

Dylan’s official last episode and we talk blowjobs. If you have any parting messages for Dylan, just use the email down below to send them to Dawn and she’ll pass them along. On this Hit It and Quit It, we heard from a listener about some horrible advice that Anna Faris and Adam Corolla recently gave on Anna’s podcast, Unqualified. …

Sex Gets Real 100: HUGE ANNOUNCEMENT, threesomes, unicorns, and butt stuff

Did you hear the news? Wow. 100 episodes. 100 episodes of Sex Gets Real. What an amazing 2+ years it’s been. And it also seems appropriate that today is the day Dylan is announcing she’s leaving the show. As sad as Dawn is about the news, Dylan has an opportunity that is amazing and something she’s been wanting for a …

Sex Gets Real 98: Should a virgin just do it?

New sex for us and sex for newbies. Dawn attended a BDSM conference for Valentine’s in Canada and tried several new things. Dylan scored a ton of presents. We have a backlog of listener emails, too. One listener wants to give his girlfriend a vibrator but she’s inexperienced and he isn’t sure where to start. Another listener is a virgin …

Sex Gets Real 96: The Womanizer and lesbian bed death

Unexpected orgasms and money for sex? Dawn got her hands on a new sex toy that’s a clitoral stimulator. She wants to give it a few more test drives, but offers her first impression. Then, we field listener questions on Bad Dragon dildos, taking money for sex off a craigslist ad which leads us to ranting about sex work laws, …

Sex Gets Real Episode 93: Gay coloring book & hand techniques

Gay coloring book and new hand sex techniques. Head over to Explore More Summit at exploremoresummit.com to register for Dawn’s free 10-day online summit. It all starts January 28th, 2016, but if you see this after the event, you can still check out the interviews. Dawn has a new coloring book that is all gay men and group sex. Dylan …

Sex Gets Real: Holiday Special 2015

Quick erotica to tide us over Dawn just can’t take not recording, so to tide everyone over until the new year, she decided to read a little 3 minute erotica called “Pink” by Helena Black from Got a Minute? 60 Second Erotica. Our next episode airs January 3rd, so stay tuned and have a safe New Years. You know we …