Sex Gets Real 136: Gay man having straight sex & embarrassing vulva lips

Hello, from Salt Lake City! Thanks for all of the feedback on last week’s episode, post-election. So many of you had so many thoughtful and kind things to say. I appreciate it more than you know. This week, I field questions about sissification and being a masculine dude who loves feminine things, a gay guy who is having his first …

Sex Gets Real 133: Whores of Yore on sex & porn through the ages

Grab a cup of tea, settle in, and prepare to be amazed. When Kate Lister, creator of Whores of Yore, agreed to come on the show, I did cartwheels. And it’s pretty evident why as you listen to this fascinating and hysterical episode all about the history of sex, porn, and sex work. Kinky Victorians who loved spankings and piss …

Sex Gets Real 132: Allison Moon on queer identity and vulvas

Sign-up for my live, online anal 101 class! It’s October 26th and going to be amazing fun. Learn more and register now. When I think about my sex educator heroes, Allison Moon is one of the folks who has had a tremendous impact on the way I approach and talk about sexuality and sex. Her own journey through lesbian identity …

Sex Gets Real 115: Lube & STI master class

Are you ready for a mastery level version of Sex Gets Real? Good. Because this week, Sarah Mueller from Smitten Kitten joins the show to share her research on lube, as well as her findings around herpes and STIs. Did you know some lubes (like KY) actually INCREASE the likelihood of STI transmission because the lube damages your genital tissue? …

Sex Gets Real 113: Erotic porn, fat sex, & problematic orgasms

If you’re listening to this on June 12th, 2016, you still have time to enter the celebration giveaway! The winner gets an njoy 11 worth $310. Check out the details here. Giveaway closes at 11:30pm ET in the U.S. 6/12/2016. Oh, and be sure to pop over to Kickstarter to check out the new sex game Weapons of Mass Seduction. …

Sex Gets Real 112: Salad tossing and vegan BDSM

DID YOU HEAR THE NEWS? The podcast hit half a million downloads last week. So, as a great big thank you, I’m hosting a giveaway and the winner gets an njoy 11 worth $310. Check out the details here. Enter before June 12th! Also, because it was such a huge week, I wanted to spend a little quality time with …

Sex Gets Real 91: Dawn’s HUGE announcement & trans bodies

Dawn has a huge announcement & trans stuff. Head over to Explore More Summit at exploremoresummit.com to register for Dawn’s free 10-day online summit. She’s been slaving over it for 3 months, in secret, and you do NOT want to miss all of the experts and celebrities she interviewed. It all starts January 28th, 2016, but if you see this …

Sex Gets Real 84: Hysterectomies & libido

Hysterectomies can impact sex, plus soapy blowjobs We have a full episode for you this week. From listener stories about fingering circles as a teenager to warnings against soapy blowjobs, our listeners are certainly adventurous. Plus, one listener wants to know what can be done now that his wife has had a full hysterectomy and has zero desire for sex. …

Sex Gets Real 77: Pussies are beautiful and delicious

Georgia O’Keefe was on to something. Pussies are beautiful. Vulva are spectacular. And the problem is that too many vulva owners don’t realize this. After reading an article on the alarming demand for reconstructive surgery on labia, Dawn and Dylan weigh in on the gloriousness of pussies. Also, a listener writes in with a confession and we talk dick pics. …

Sex Gets Real 56: Vulva puppet, pubic hair, and Game of Thrones

Vulva puppet, hair down there, masturbation, and porn. First up, we are interviewing Cooper Beckett from Life on the Swingset, so if you have questions for him, get those to us by Thursday, April 30th. This episode is a collection of all the things. If you want to help name Dawn’s new vulva puppet, just head over to her Instagram …