Sex Gets Real 98: Should a virgin just do it?

New sex for us and sex for newbies. Dawn attended a BDSM conference for Valentine’s in Canada and tried several new things. Dylan scored a ton of presents. We have a backlog of listener emails, too. One listener wants to give his girlfriend a vibrator but she’s inexperienced and he isn’t sure where to start. Another listener is a virgin …

Sex Gets Real 97: Revealing clothes and help with a fantasy

That fits where? It all starts with an article about modesty and how women should expect to be treated poorly based on what they wear. You know Dawn can’t let that go. So, let’s put on our ranty pants and rage against the sexist notion that what you wear has anything to do with your value, intelligence, or ability. Then, …

Sex Gets Real 96: The Womanizer and lesbian bed death

Unexpected orgasms and money for sex? Dawn got her hands on a new sex toy that’s a clitoral stimulator. She wants to give it a few more test drives, but offers her first impression. Then, we field listener questions on Bad Dragon dildos, taking money for sex off a craigslist ad which leads us to ranting about sex work laws, …

Sex Gets Real 95: Practicing butt stuff

Butt stuff. It’s all about the butt. Over 3,500 people turned in for the Explore More Summit at exploremoresummit.com. Hundreds of reviews poured in and people loved it. If you want to check out the 30 interviews for yourself, you can still buy them for just over $1 per talk. A listener needs advice on how to get started with …

Sex Gets Real 94: Clown sex, porn, and shame

This is what happens when we have coffee and record first thing. Head over to Explore More Summit at exploremoresummit.com to register for Dawn’s free 10-day online summit. It all starts January 28th, 2016, but if you see this after the event, you can still check out the interviews. We’re a little hyper this time around, but what can you …

Sex Gets Real 92: A wife blows up over a request for group sex

What do you do when you have that scary sex conversation and it blows up on you? Be sure to sign-up for the Explore More Summit at exploremoresummit.com. It’s free, and Dawn has 30 interviews for you to watch over the course of 10 days, starting January 28th. It’s amazing and even has celebrity guests. We’ve got listener stories about …

Sex Gets Real: Holiday Special 2015

Quick erotica to tide us over Dawn just can’t take not recording, so to tide everyone over until the new year, she decided to read a little 3 minute erotica called “Pink” by Helena Black from Got a Minute? 60 Second Erotica. Our next episode airs January 3rd, so stay tuned and have a safe New Years. You know we …

Sex Gets Real 89: Butt sex and the REAL mess

Butts get real A listener wants us to be really real. Just how messy is anal play? She wants to try it, but she’s psyched herself out over the poop. That sends us off on a bender on all things butts – from hair to the doorbell technique to Dylan getting REALLY excited about all the things she likes in …

Sex Gets Real 88: Stoya rape & Bondage Bands

Straight guys having sexing with straight guys? We want to start the episode by saying that we stand in solidarity with Stoya after she named James Deen as her rapist. It takes tremendous courage to speak up, especially when the person you’re naming is so popular and beloved. Let’s talk about the psychology of victim blaming. Let’s also talk about …

Sex Gets Real 87: STI stigma and poly feels

Sex. The scariest thing in the world? Dawn really loved this conversation about STI stigma. A recent article in The Atlantic (link below in the show notes) talked about some research findings that show people are terrified of sex. People judge someone more harshly for transmitting a mild case of curable chlamydia than killing someone with swine flu. Why? Because …