I used to be the queen of expectations – always dreaming and wishing and pushing for specific outcomes. I called it good planning or being prepared or keeping my eye on the prize, and while it’s great to have goals, it becomes unhealthy when you cling to the point of rigidity. One day, I realized that part of my …
Sexual super powers. Go! Dylan is back. This makes us happy. So, a question came up about sexual super powers. Dawn and Dylan start imagining all the things you could do if you had a sex super power. What would yours be? In the DC area in August? Then join Dawn at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit from August 13-16. …
I don’t know how you feel about your body, but the relationship that I have with my body is deep, complex, and not at all consistent. Over the years, I’ve been quite mean to both my body and myself. In fact, there was a time when I believed myself to be so undesirable that I almost cried when a lover …
I have a confession. It’s personal and involves years of embarrassment on my part, so I hope you’ll be patient with me as my story of self discovery unfolds. From the time I was in my early teens, I loved pleasuring myself. I don’t remember exactly when I made the discovery, but I distinctly remember wishing for time alone at the …
From penis size (again) to pinball machines, from jealousy to one-hit wonder orgasms – plus a special guest This episode is brought to you by Yes Please, More Please – the art of seduction through food. Don’t miss their Mexican Aphrodisiac dinner in Washington, DC on April 4, 2015. We have a very special in-studio guest this week (who happens …
Disclaimer: I realize that not all sex therapists, sex educators, sex workers, or sex professionals want to be inclusive and accepting. If that is you, I honor your path and encourage you to stop reading. This article isn’t for you. I’ll admit that I struggle to use inclusive language sometimes. Being deliberate in my word choices can feel like a …
Today’s letter is ‘K’! Dylan marvels over “pet guys” from Korean soap operas. Basically, submissive men who are shamed by what they do. Plus, Dawn talks about a new pussy exerciser called kGoal. it’s like a Fit Bit for your girl parts. Want to check out the kGoal? Here’s the Kickstarter page. You know we love hearing from you, so …