Sex Gets Real 156: Premature ejaculation, racist fetishes, & when a friend is raped

Don’t forget – April 17th, there is an online PJ party just for Patreon supporters of the show. We will spend an hour sharing stories, asking questions, and hanging out in our PJs. Bring your hot chocolate, comfy clothes, and let’s hang out. Support the show before April 17th to gain access. Plus, some news about my personal life. I’m …

Sex Gets Real 155: Andrew Gurza on sex, disability, Orphan Black, & flirting

Patreon supporters! Did you see the exclusive behind-the-scenes clip from Erotic Film School that I posted? If not, be sure to check it out at patreon.com/sgrpodcast. Andrew Gurza is here this week talking all about sex and disability. We geek out over Orphan Black, talk about his hashtag #diSAYbled, dive into body politics and ableism, and explore his experiences with …

Sex Gets Real 154: Erotic Film School, making porn, & first time lesbian sex

If you missed the Explore More Summit, you can still grab all of the talks for as little as $1.20 each plus loads of bonus materials. This weekend I am in San Francisco attending Madison Young’s Erotic Film School. I’m learning how to make porn. YAY! If you want to see some of the behind the scenes pictures and videos …

Sex Gets Real 153: Reid Mihalko on threesomes, polyamory, lesbian porn, and anti-oppression work

Reid Mihalko is here this week and our conversation goes deep. We start by geeking out over Reid’s latest adventures into anti-oppression work, learning about emotional labor as a cis white guy, and he even tears up over just how important it is for dudes to level up in these spaces, even if it’s just 10 or 20%. Then, we …

Sex Gets Real 152: Bad condom tech, confessions, & nervous dating

I am eyeball deep in the Explore More Summit. Day 5 is unfolding today (March 12th) and you can sign-up for the Explore More Summit here. It’s free and goes until March 17th. Anyway, because I’m so busy summiting, today is a nice and short hit it and quit it. First, I rant about a new piece of wearable technology that tracks …

Sex Gets Real 151: A different way to dominate, pegging problems, & foursomes

It’s a very special episode this week because you are getting to hear exclusive, never before heard clips from nine of the Explore More Summit talks. You’ll hear from Tristan Taormino, Allison Moon, Virgie Tovar, Melissa Toler, Dirty Lola of Sex Ed a Go Go, Cyndi Darnell, Betty Martin, Aida Manduley, and Orpheus Black. I also field listener questions on …

Sex Gets Real 120: Trans fetish, pegging, & being bad in bed

It’s just you and me this week. No guest. No interview. Just your questions and emails and me savoring every single one of them. We’re talking transsexual fetish sex, pegging, exploring sex with a partner who is a rape survivor, what it means to be bad at sex, Hollywood myths about how sex should look, and ALL the ways to …

ex Gets Real 119: Fetish wrestling, sex work, & fisting

Have you taken the poll on dawnserra.com yet telling me where in the world you are? I want to take this show on the road, but first, I need to know where you are! This week’s chat is one of my favorites. Andre Shakti is an absolute delight. The first time I saw her in person at Sex Down South …