Sex Gets Real 265: “Straight pride”, breaking relationship agreements, and sexual fantasies

Your pleasure matters. Join the July cohort of  my 5-week online Power in Pleasure course. Check out details and enroll at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. This week’s episode is just me and you. First, I get on a soapbox about the bullshit that is “straight pride” and how it’s really just like white pride and men’s rights activists. We’ve got to call this …

Sex Gets Real 264: Getting a partner to dirty talk, crossdressing, and accountability updates

Your pleasure matters. Join the July cohort of  my 5-week online Power in Pleasure course. Check out details and enroll at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. This week’s episode is just me and you. First up, some updates from the survivor pod around Franklin Veaux and hearing from more of the women. Definitely check out polyamory-metoo.com and Aida Manduley’s twitter thread for some good …

Sex Gets Real 263: Aida Manduley on accountability and transformative justice

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Sex Gets Real 262: Samantha Manewitz on emotional abuse and gaslighting

Want to work with me? Join the July cohort of the Power in Pleasure course. Check out details and pre-enroll at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. My coaching practice has a few new spots available. If you could use support around the places where you feel most stuck, I’d love to support you. Details about my coaching practice are here: dawnserra.com/work-with-me . In a Sex Gets …

Sex Gets Real 260: Play party etiquette, bra and panty fetish, and cutting of family after abuse

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Sex Gets Real 259: Accountability, women and older partners, & only wanting solo sex even when you’re married

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Sex Gets Real 258: Healing from emotional abuse, a partner who doesn’t want intercourse, & swinging

It’s time to deepen your relationship with pleasure. Check out my new pleasure course which is enrolling now through April 29, 2019 (we’ll enroll again in June!). It’s called Power in Pleasure: Reconnecting with Your Hunger, Desire, and Joy and runs for five weeks online. I’d love to see you there. First, I apologize that this episode is so late. Between …

Sex Gets Real 257: Bratty submissives, being cheated on, & creative sex

Is your relationship with pleasure complicated? Check out my new pleasure course which is enrolling now through April 29, 2019 (we’ll enroll again in June!). It’s called Power in Pleasure: Reconnecting with Your Hunger, Desire, and Joy and runs for five weeks online. I’d love to see you there. On with the show! Anonymous shares how exploring and communicating with a …

Sex Gets Real 256: M’kali-Hashiki on the erotic, safety, and healing

Is your relationship with pleasure complicated? Check out my new pleasure course which is enrolling now through April 22, 2019 (we’ll enroll again in June!). It’s called Power in Pleasure: Reconnecting with Your Hunger, Desire, and Joy and runs for five weeks online. I’d love to see you there. M’kali-Hashiki is here! Let’s talk about erotic healing and more. M’kali-Hashiki works …

Sex Gets Real 255: Can you ask your partner to not watch porn and when a cheater gets cheated on

Is your relationship with pleasure complicated? Check out my new pleasure course which is enrolling now through April 22, 2019 (we’ll enroll again in June!). It’s called Power in Pleasure: Reconnecting with Your Hunger, Desire, and Joy and runs for five weeks online. I’d love to see you there. On with the show! I received a doozy of an email recently …