ONE-ON-ONE & couples coaching & counselling

Work with me.

Your body is not a problem to be solved. Pleasure is your birthright. You don't have to do this work alone.

SEX AND RELATIONSHIP COACHING

Work with me.

Sex is a social skill. Pleasure is your birthright. You are not alone.

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I’ve coached and offered advice via my podcast, workshops, and events to thousands of people from around the world on bodies, pleasure, relationships, sex, and all of the threads that bind them.

The most common reasons people work with someone like me are:

  • Body shame and a complicated relationship with pleasure (especially folks in fat bodies and/or coming out of eating disorder recovery or an intuitive eating program)
  • Lack of connection to their own needs, wants, and desires
  • Feeling ‘something is missing’ around sex, intimacy, and the erotic
  • Disappointment, frustration, or shame about their libido and desire
  • Fear that they’re broken, undesirable, or abnormal
  • A desire for more depth and permission, a deepening
  • Healing around self-worth, love, & pleasure
  • Boundary work and finding ways to interrupt old patterns of people-pleasing & erasure of self

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The reason I share this up front is I want you to know that if thousands of people (at a minimum) are struggling with these things, then the problem is not YOU

You are not broken.
You are not wrong.
You deserve more.

You were brought up in a culture and influenced by systems that separated you from your aliveness, your body trust, your erotic energy, your wisdom, and your pleasure.

What I Do

I offer individual and couples counselling (to people in British Columbia) and coaching (to people around the world outside of B.C.) designed to help you heal your relationship with pleasure, strengthen your communication skills, and deepen your connection with your hunger and desire so that you can take up more space, channel your power, and improve your relationship with yourself, your body, and those you love.

We'll work together to gently and compassionately practice your way into greater self-trust, body trust, pleasure, and permission to be you. My work is informed by a number of therapeutic practices, frameworks, and beliefs. You can read more about that on my About page.

This work is intimate.

It is personal.

It is deep.

That is to say, this work is not easy but that is also why it is so rich. My approach is compassionate, gentle, collaborative, radical, and centered around your capacity and needs. You will be challenged to release old stories and harmful beliefs, and my job is to not only help you write new stories, but to make this work as playful, curious, gentle, and healing as possible. 

What I want more than anything for you is spaciousness, ease, joy, and confidence that you have new skills and tools that will serve you for the rest of your life.

Who I Work With

People who tend to find this work most beneficial are:

- Curious to explore new ways of being

- Willing to do the work, even when it's uncomfortable and challenging

- Already on the journey to breaking up with diet culture and mainstream narratives about bodies, healing, and relationships

- Looking for a co-creator, co-conspirator, and collaborator to support them in their healing work

I will listen to your truth.

I will witness without judgement.

I will trust your body's wisdom.

I will offer compassionate inquiry and show up fully to support you.

Ways to work with me

There are two ways to work with me:


One-on-one coaching

$150 per 50-minute session

All sessions are currently conducted virtually. Located in British Columbia? Counselling is available.

Sliding scale spots may be available for those in need.

Relationship coaching

$180 per 50-minute & $250 per 75-minute session

All parties must be committed and ready to do the work. This is about so much more than skills (because if it was just about skills, you'd have figured it out on your own already).

You don't have to do this alone

At this time, I am accepting new clients in my private practice. Yay!

All you have to do is click the button below, complete the brief form with a few details about you, and I will send you a link to schedule a free getting-to-know-you Zoom call within the next 48 hours.

Super easy, and no commitment until we have a chance to chat.

Let's get started!

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