It all starts with you.
Relationships take practice. Desire can be cultivated. Only you can answer the question: what do I want?
This is your time, your story, your chance to step into new experiences and opportunities.
My role is to grant permission and hold space while offering tools and the support that you may need to heal, reconnect, and rediscover what it means to be in love - with yourself or with another.
The courses, tool kits, and workbooks you'll find here are designed to make the tough stuff, the scary stuff, or the stuck stuff easier to tackle.
You don't have to do it alone. We've all been there. I've been there.
From bringing your relationship back to a place of nurturing and joy to appreciating your body and all of its glory to little scripts and workbooks that allow you to get clear on what's holding you back and what the endless possibilities hold for you.
Take a look around. Step inside. Surrender to your wisdom.
And if you feel like you need more support than what you see here, I'd love to work with you.
Every Wednesday, I do a live stream video all about the ways pop culture influences our feelings and beliefs about love, life, and sex with O School.
O.School is an online, live streaming destination offering free daily sex and relationship edutainment (education and entertainment). If you register with them, you'll get a daily email telling you who is live streaming that day.
You can watch, learn, and chat with the pleasure professionals during their live stream.
My O.School (that's the website) schedule is below.
Schedule a date night (with yourself or with a lover), grab some popcorn, and join me Wednesdays at 5pm Pacific/8pm Eastern.
What is your relationship with your anger?Do you silence it? Deny it? Fear giving your anger a voice because conflict feels unsafe or uncontrolled? Resilience and healing NEED anger. Our sovereignty and wholeness demands our anger. Where is your anger? What does it look like and feel like? What is it telling you? If you want to step into your power, your anger needs a voice.
Your boundaries never have to be justified. They never have to be rational to anyone other than you. Your boundaries are not up for debate. And yet, the world teaches us otherwise. So, how can we take up that space and find our voice to not only keep ourselves safe but also to build a life that feels good & full of connection? This workshop will challenge you, push you, and invite you to find ways to set yourself free.
Play is one of the most potent and critical tools we have at our disposal for nurturing healthy relationships, for self-care, and for cultivating joy in our lives. Far too many of us have no idea how to play anymore. This workshop is about looking back and mapping our our play history. It's about coming up with endless ways to play in big and small ways as a way to invite curiosity, discovery, and a sense of movement into our life and relationships.
Online products & recorded workshops
Butt stuff. You're curious (or someone in your life is), but you're not sure where to get started. Will it hurt? Is it messy? What do you need to know to keep it safe and fun? This 90-minute online workshop is the perfect primer for all things behind.
Why do people watch porn? Does it mean something if your partner watches porn with people who look nothing like you? Are you gay if you watch gay porn? Can porn be used ethically and can it actually HELP a relationship? All of that and more is in this fun, informative workshop about porn.
Co-creating a relationship with someone you love is one of the most challenging and rewarding journeys you can go on. This relationship charter is a powerful and simple way to ensure everyone feels seen and valued.
Thirty gorgeous pages of exercises, tips, and research-based techniques for getting unstuck and overcoming resentment to reconnect and reignite those feelings of wonder and joyousness.
Want to learn how to talk about sex in a way that's fun and easy? Not sure how to ask your partner what they like in bed? Let this sex map game become your go-to source for staying curious and exploring your loved one's sexual landscape so you can become a master of their sexy terrain.
Listen to and/or watch talks from the world's leading experts in sexuality, communication, relationship mastery, kink, and self-acceptance. Therapists, porn stars, academics, and celebrities bring you their knowledge & expertise in these fun, entertaining chats. Choose from three different summits featuring over 70 powerful talks from dozens of thought-leaders. Plus, rad bonuses and workbooks!
$27 - $100
Looking for other ways to learn and grow?
Every two weeks, I send a note full of resources that are inspiring me. Because like you, I'm swimming in the same soup of sex negativity, relationship myths, and harmful messages that keep us all down.
Let us grow together. In pleasure. In delight. In solidarity and curiosity.
I'd love to have you join me on this journey.